I proposed to my girlfriend, Silvia, on Thanksgiving in front of her entire family.  She said yes!  It was quite an occasion.  We aren’t yet sure when the date will be.

I’ll post some pictures of our trip to upstate New York soon, one of them has me on one knee .

Visual Studio 2005 Beta 2 is dying on me…  I wonder if it knows that I am about to replace it with the RTM version.

Any time I Rebuild All or run my app and play with it for 1 or 2 minutes Visual Studio just exits, no error message, no restart, nothing.  Makes it quite hard to develop, donchathink?

I am kind of reluctant to update to RTM too soon since we have apps in development under beta 2.

Now playing: Dave Matthews Band - All Along the Watchtower

I just thought I’d plug a cool website I found today.  It’s called Side Job Track and it’s pretty sweet.  It allows you to track side projects for just about any type of project.  Includes free invoicing, simple reports, and a client list.

This is perfect for my few-and-far-between computer service/networking jobs I get from time to time. 

Check it out, it’s totally free.

Now playing: Nirvana - The Man Who Sold The World

Holy crap.  I can’t believe I wasted 45 minutes on this stupid, stupid, mistake.

When dealing with .NET and IDbCommands, you can execute the command in various ways:

• ExecuteReader() – which will execute the command and return an IDataReader with the resultset loaded.
• ExecuteScalar() – which will return a single value from the database, generally used for returning a COUNT or an @@IDENTITY
• ExecuteNonQuery() – which is used for, well, just plain executing a query.  This function DOES have a return value, though:  the number of records affected.

I just spent almost an hour trying to figure out why this:

//Execute command and return the primary key of the item we just inserted
base._id = Convert.ToInt32(cmd.ExecuteNonQuery());

was returning 1, always, even though the current primary key in that table is in the 90’s.

Looks like I need to get some sleep…

Now playing: Staind - Mudshovel - Winamp *** 1514. Staind - Mudshovel

I’m listening to .NET Rocks! live in Austin right now (you can download it here)

I enjoyed listening to Jeffrey Palermo and Scott Bellware, as I read their blogs often.

I’d just like to vent about this moron:

.. who said “C# Sucks!” live on the air.  His name is Leeman Schmitt.  Obviously this guy is incredibly narrow-minded, and cannot easily understand (let alone take advantage of) the differences and superiorities of another language.  VB.NET, while a great language, is not the panacea of development.  I get completely annoyed when someone is tied so tightly to ONE particular viewpoint on a problem.

I believe it was Scott Hanselman who said, “C# and VB.NET are just different flavors of IL” –  I couldn’t agree with this more.

Given the choice, I will choose C# because that’s what I prefer.  I don’t push it on anyone else, I don’t claim that it’s the best, or that everything else sucks.  I am perfectly happy to work on a project in VB.NET because I am versatile.  I would be happy to use PHP or Ruby, or JSP for that matter, since I believe being multi-faceted benefits my work in ALL languages.

I have been hearing a lot of this whiny attitude toward C# lately.  I wouldn’t hire anyone if they couldn’t program comfortably in VB.NET and C#.  I would also frown upon anyone who would just JUMP to using a particular technology for every problem they come across.

Anyway, I cast my blogvote to C#, thought I still respect any language or tool that will help me work productively. 

Ok, I’m done ranting…  flame on

Ed: Ok, so I was a little harsh.  Apparently there was more to this story.  So Leeman, no offense…  I just get really worked up about this topic

I just finished reading Extreme Programming Explained, 2nd Edition, by Kent Beck.

The book is a very easy read, weighing in at 160 pages.  I was able to easily finish it in the spare minutes I have during the day.

I thoroughly enjoyed the book and will be applying a few of the principles immediately at my job.  I enjoyed taking a break from purely technical book and focusing on values and principles.  There is also an extensive annotated bibliography in the back which will probably serve as my new-books-to-read source.

Next up is the Pragmatic Programmer, which I probably should’ve read a LONG time ago, but always put it off.  I’ll write a short review when I finish it.

I just realized It’s been a while since my last technical post, so I thought I’d share my latest frustration. (Don’t you just love those?)

Today’s frustration comes from the behavior of ToolTips in windows.  By default, if a control has it’s enabled property set to false (that’s disabled for you boolean challenged out there) then it will not receive the required mouse events for tool tips to function properly.

So for my “Save” button on a form, if it’s disabled, I’d sure like to tell the user WHY it’s disabled.  To me this seems like one of the more common uses of the tooltip.

An image will definitely help:

To accomplish this I had to put something invisible behind the button, but it still didn’t work properly, so you can see I shrunk the button just to get it to work.

I could display a status bar or something along those lines, but I don’t want to complain to the user until they actually try to click “Save Changes.”

I read in MFC you can use PreTranslateMessage to allow WM_MOUSEMOVE to be passed to a disabled button, but I don’t really have the time or the energy to do this in .NET. (unless someone else wants to give me some pointers…)

Sadly, a google search led me to only 1 possible quick-fix (putting a label or something behind the button and set the tooltip to that) ….  but it didn’t work.

I’d just like to say… ahem:   “GO ASTROS!”

That is all…

Now playing: Weezer - Tired Of Sex - Winamp *** 1639. Weezer - Tired Of Sex

I’ve been down in the dumps about my mom recently.  I know it’s to be expected, but it’s strange how it hits me now, even more than at her funeral.

I think part of it is because I was very close to the situation, almost jaded by it, and now that things have had a chance to settle it’s more real.  We rarely even walk into her room anymore, so 1/3 of our house is completely unused.  This will change sometime soon, but I’m not sure when.

This week I hope to bring her ashes home (my aunt has been hogging them ).  I hope that may help me feel a little better.